Tuesday, 8 September 2009

New beginings

September is a month of new beginings as is january. But hey, if you think about it every moment can be a new begining. I have come to WOW the tool "recovery". The recovery tool helps me from quickly getting out of a "victim" mood. I tell myself "stop beating yourself up - it's not too bad" "Come on, get over with it and go on"... I am getting better and better at it...Work in progress...Very very useful and powerful. Think about it , if we feel sorry for ourselves it is really us who decide, will it be for 10 minutes, half an hour, half a day, a week, a month, a year...10 years...a lifetime ???? Just think about it....I really believe we are all responsible for the way we think and the way we look at life, and yes, its not easy all the time, - who said it would be? But on the path we can learn some tools that makes it all easier and more graspable.

Sometimes we are talking about other kinds of recoveries. We might have lost someone. Then there is grief in the picture and that is really another chapter.

3 years ago I was pregnant with a little girl and unfortunately we lost her late in my pregnancy. She is now our angel and our 3rd child. The recovery from loosing takes another shape than the "every day challanges " we meet on our path. Time is a healer they say and today I can speak about the lost in a different way than even 1 year ago. September is the month we lost her. When having the cermony for her we asked people to come in bright colours, preferably pink and we asked everyone to think about how they celebrate their own precious gift call LIFE !


If you are curious about knowing more about recovery contact me per email.

Love & Peace
Yvette

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